Šta će reći svet – Gugadžina – BESPLATNI OGLAS

Nedavno sam razgovarala sa jednom ženicom koju grize savest svaki put kad je više svoja nego više majka. Kako da ode u grad a da je pre toga nisu iscedili? Šta, nema šanse da neko drugi stavi decu u krevet itd. A želi, jako želi da se otrese tog usađenog, nametnutog poziva – idealne majke, majke stojeručice.

Koliko samo stvari radimo zato što to tako treba..

Zato što je to najbolje za decu, a nas ko šiša (ma šta će nam frizer kad i to možemo sami).

Neretko glasno govore žene koje na vrhuncu svog intimnog nezadovoljstva, pocrtavaju kako su svoj život posvetile (podredile) deci. Kako sada kada su deca svoji ljudi, one ne mogu da
pronađu sebe, nema ih više, puf.. svele su se na samo jedan bit koji više nije u prvom planu.
Takve majke, sa ugašenim svetlom i ulogom žrtve, svoj plameni jezičak prenose na svoje ćerke, snaje i ostale ženske sledbenike. Jer to je tradicija kod nas, da se osuđuje, da se dvori, da se poništava sve što “preti” da majku i suprugu skrene na neki drugi put koji nije Taj – već unapred debelo predodređen.

Slično je kad su u pitanju uverenja jedne majke/domaćice. Tvoje dete još nije u krevetu ili daješ mu da jede taj džank. Ccccc Ide boso po tom betonu!

Koliko je samo kalupa koje ni ne kapiramo, nesvesno preuzimamo i šaljemo dalje u jedan
začarani krug nepisanih pravila. Pravdajući se da samo ponekad jede čips ali organski i već zna sva slova ili da su nova istraživanja pokazala da je bolje ići bos nego u anatomskim ulošcima.

Pravila se menjaju, ali imperativ ostaje isti.

Uče nas da je rutina jako važna za pravilan razvoj deteta, pa ne daj bože da planiraš nešto ako je detetu vreme za spavanje. Iako se često ispostavlja se da su naprednija, živahnija, svestranija deca koja su za to vreme dremnula u kolima, na koncertu ili su čak ostala budna.
Matrice ponašanja i odgajanja su kao i sve druge dobro ukorenjene u kolektivno nesvesnom, pa često oni koji prigovaraju nama su i sami bili predmet prigovora.

Neki u tom vrzinom kolu zauvek ostaju, a neki prosto shvate da tu nema zakona i da ih je baš briga šta će reći svet, koji zapravo i nije njihov svet.

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Fragrant Ozone Mirisna Oasis Oaza Flower Meadow Cvetna livada Selling 4.0 lux flat Čelebonovića Bežanijska kosa Novi Beograd wheelchair ramp park view huge terrace glass winter house renovated furnished tenanted property investment buy-to-let Serbia Large 3 bedroom apartment, 110m2, VP/6, 26m2 terrace, CG, 2 klima, parking. Equipment, appliances, furniture are new on manufacturers guarantee. My tenants moved in July 2024 on a one year tenancy contract at e990 monthly to my brand new 3 bedroom apartment. That is e11880 yearly income. The modern building from 1995 with a large public parking shaded with trees for unlimited cars. Two empty parking spaces next to the building for disabled wheelchair users are situated next to ramp, no step or gap to cross. The apartment is located on the high ground floor, elevated 1 metre in relation to the terrain. Rooms oriented on cooling North, with bathroom and kitchen on South. Venetian mirror windows with blinds. Two exits from rooms to terrace, from which there is an exit by steps to garden lawn on the ground level. Completely renovated, replaced electrical and plumbing installations, PVC interior and exterior carpentry, quality brand name bathroom and toilet, parquet planed and varnished. Two air conditioning inverter units with heater. Bright and sunny, freshly white painted, fully furnished and fully equipped on 110 m2, with 84m2 registered and 26m2 under glass roofed terrace. By the owner. Infostan 15500 dinars. With the planned next year connection to municipal gas, heating bill will be according to individual use, fraction of present charges. Apartment is 253 cm high and consists of: – kitchen enclosed by glass harmonica door, fully equipped with 280 litres fridge-freezer and 2 m2 shelved pantry, – bathroom with brand new 7kg washing-drying machine, – living room with double doors to glassed winter house, – dining room with table for 6, connecting to all other rooms, with 2 glass harmonica doors, – three bedrooms – 2 master bedrooms 14m2 and 12m2 with double beds, and 10m2 children bedroom with a single bed, – large terrace of 26 m² with glass winter house, – toilet with cupboards and storage space, – entrance hall with metal security door with safety locks, intercom. Security cameras at house entrance. Ideal for a multi generational family, including wheelchair users. The building is of high construction quality and energy efficiency. The outer insulation is mineral wool. Close to the international road system with 2km to motorways number M11, 70 and 75, taking to Belgrade International Airport in 14 minutes drive and same timing to the city centre. Public busses from outside building and from within 3 minutes walk, taking to all parts of the city. Next to: Ozone Mirisna Oaza Fragrant Flower Meadow Skriveni Tajni Dijamant Peščara Sandstone Hiking area Teniski tereni Jovan Petković Sports Park 100m Škola Fudbala F.K. Lane Football School Sport Fields 130m Sportski Centar 7 Soccer Club Field. SC Bezanija judo tenis football aikido jiu jitsu karate Sports Clubs 1km Belgrade Squash Club Teratana Blok Revolution Gym Iskrica nursery school kindergarten 80m Primary school „Dragan Lukić“ 1km Руска школа Foreign languages program school 3.8km Mastograd Indoor kids playground 200m Dečija Igraonica Ostrvo sa Blagom Novi Beograd children's amusement 200m Special Rubber Park basketball court 800m Sfetofor Discount grocery shop 700m Small shopping centre, post office, banks, bakery, Maxi Friendly and peaceful neighbours. Payment in cryptocurrencies is welcome. Kontakt: Gosa 00381654635963, Milan 0038163657994 flat.sale.bezanijska.kosa@gmail.com Thank you for your kind attention – BESPLATNI OGLAS

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